if i leave IRC its because of 2 reasons, i just left for work or i just went to bed, i dont leave irc for any other reason.

as for hatred, there is a difference between hating someone , and yelling at a member because they disregard alliance rules and put other members countries at risk. ask your roommate he has been yelled at several times by me, hell years ago when pollex first joined TKO we were always yelling at each other.