I am better at this game than you. I finish ahead of you on every server every set. I beat you on team last set with 300 defends, 400+ warhits and over a hundred harmful ops against me. I'm well aware of how grabbing returns work, and I enjoy that aspect of the game.

Edit: I do think topfeeds by nature are annoying af. But if someone with more land and nw hits you and you retal that's part of the game. Not a topfeed.