I think a brief history of every war between us would be this:

Arwen memorial set: sol and stones blindside elders and sof and lose
Sol and elders vs server: sol and elders beat laf stones and others
Arranged war fail: elders ends up in war with laf, asks sol to call off war, sol refuses, elders calls in allies to make it fun
Sol fs following set
Tie/rage/sol arranged war works fine
Sol fs
Sol break pact fs